Working For A Living

I am working for a living.  That does not mean I am punching a clock while wishing I could punch some guy’s face for clocking in more hours of my life trying to make him money than I get to spend with my family.  On the contrary, I am doing something at home that is a lot of work, and I am doing it for a living, or a life, rather.  The packing is just beginning for me, and I am getting mine sorted first because I expect it to be the easiest part of this move.  I like the things I own, some in particular, but I am not too attached to things since I prepared to move to England and had to rid myself of so much then.  Hours and hours of life are spent in earning money that soon vanishes away on things that in the end are not worth the time spent earning the money to buy them.  So, thankfully, all of the things I own that I want to take with me will fit into two tea chests, and anything that doesn’t gets to fit into a dustbin.  Leaving a country is like dying, and so far, this is the second  time I have seen myself die.  Those who clean up after my eventual demise would do just as well to do the inevitable and pile my stuff into the bin and forget it. 

Despite this view on my personal belongings, making the decisions gets harder as things are whittled down.  After all, the more I throw out, the closer I get to those things that I place a higher value on.  Of course photographic equipment went in first.  There needs to be space for computer gear because the documents I think I will need are stored on drives and not being carried in paper copies.  But what mementos?  What things will signify my life in the UK for the last 8 years?  What will I display on a shelf somewhere to show to others that I was here?  What thing can signify that amount of time?  Alas, only I can sit on that shelf.

They say when you visit a place of natural beauty you should take only photographs and leave only footprints.  But the other side is that the place both takes from you, and leaves something with you.  England has taken time, has taken some of what made me that much more naive, it has taken my breath away, and it has choked me.  It has left me with a wider view of the world, a greater knowledge and understanding, and it has left me with a more open mind to many things.  England has made me a cynic, and an optimist.  In England I have took the hand of a Prince, and I have walked among the graves of Kings.  I have stood atop the walls that defended a nation that would rise to a power never before seen in the world, whose Empire still covers more land on earth than any other in history.  And as the sun never sets on the British Empire, the sun of England should never set in me. 

So what thing among my things should represent that? 

I’ll whittle with the care of Michelangelo, to reveal from the vessel the form within.   

From Worcester,

Kelsey Bacon

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Seeing 20/20

This afternoon Dylan and I went down to town to shop for a new camera bag for my gear.  I wanted one that would hold the netbook and not have tons of space to spare.  I happened upon it in Jessop’s at a better price than I could even find online.  That was a great find! 

After, we went into the Worcester County Cricket Grounds, where my father-in-law is head chef, and met my brother-in-law, Deano, and watched the 20/20 match.  It was a better game than the first one I attended with Dean a couple of years ago, and I enjoyed it immensely.  Having done a couple of Colorado Rockies baseball games, and having dealt with the TV interruptions, I have to say, at the peril of upsetting a few friends here, that Cricket truly is a more entertaining sport to watch when it is played in the 20/20 format. 

But, I know next to nothing about either Cricket, or Baseball. 

Sadly, the most entertaining bit of the game came when one of the players took a fast bowl right in the most painful place he could have, and the poor chap wandered away from the wicket and fell on his face.  I thought he proved his manhood when he finally arose ant went back to bat.  However, He did not feel he proved it enough until he took another shot in the next bowl in the exact same fashion.  This time he wandered away and put on an even better show, well, for the ladies at least!  I will let the photos tell the rest! 

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Up to Bat.

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Strike one?

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Strike two!

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No, THAT time it REALLY hurt!  So, after liberal administration of first aid sans basket…

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…He’s up and ready to bat again!

I am still not quite ready to become a Cricket fan for life, like these two gentlemen have become…

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But I do recommend to anyone to try a 20/20 match with someone knowledgeable there to explain the play! 

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General Life Comments & Recent Stuff

Today is a sit around the house and let the kids do their school work, kind of day.  I am eagerly awaiting word from the Embassy on an appointment date, but have not as yet heard from them.  I did get an e-mail last night, however, billing me for the price of the repair to the flash tube on my Nikon SB-900.  £108.00!  That is a third of the price of the flash, new!  I am amazed!  But I have enough saved up, so I get to start keeping my allowance for more fun things now! 

I am still messing about with WordPress, and working out blogs.  I like to keep things topical because otherwise everything I have to post would end up all jumbled up on one blog.  A certain amount of tidiness that way makes me a very happy person.  The latest one to go into development is called Made By Hand.  If I could thing of a better, more apropos name, I would use it.  The point of it is to start putting in the ideas or actual projects I undertake to fulfil my ambition to make my green awareness all encompassing, rather than just something that I do at home in front of the recycle bins.

The story goes a little like this:  I remember when I was a teen in high school and I was in a general science class where we covered the topics of pollution and land usage, the rain forests, and so on.  At that age I never took in this kind of information with any kind of scepticism like I do now.  The idea of how our population was growing and encroaching on nature really did not sit well with me, nor did the idea of waste piling up in nature’s pristine reserves.  It seemed to me that we lived in a world with only a limited abundance of natural resources, and that one day we would either use them all up, or pollute their sources to the point that many of them would become unusable. 

Even more than the idea of polluting or using the world beyond its capacity to supply our species, I thought of what the legacy of our age would be.  Would archaeologists of the future find our landfills and our wasted cities and see them as impressive marvels that lead to the eventual downfall of our own species, or would our generations be remembered as ones who would accomplish great things that really did mean something in terms of the survival and progression of the species. 

Taking on the legacy of the entire species is certainly too much for one person to handle, however, I did in time come to realize what is meant when it is said that we all make a difference.  Even if my part is a small one, only one six-billionth of the world’s population, it is still something!  And if I am in the right frame, then when the time comes, I could make the big difference.  Meanwhile, even the little difference is that I will teach my children social responsibility for the environment. 

The Oil Peak in the 2000’s came and hit hard, with prices of oil barrelling through the roof!  Then came the economic crash of 2009.  These drove home the same point again, about being responsible for our environment, but with a new twist on self reliance as the emphasis.  When oil goes, so will all transportation, and much of the manufacturing that we are used to now.  When it goes, the war machines will be reduced to the late 1800’s with technology improved.  And with the Chinese gaining in prosperity, and the Indians gaining in prosperity, and cars being added to the roads of both countries, we can expect oil to decline after the actual peak much faster than it reached it.  Without plastics, healthcare will eventually end up priced out of the market for many people.  Food will be far less accessible than it has been in recent decades.  Basic items will eventually be so pricy that much of the world will be forced into an austerity that resembles the early enlightenment era. 

But not to be a fear monger, I decided that the worry is not one of touting this sort of thing like people did the Y2K Bug, or anything like that.   Instead, mine would be an approach of preparing for the future by gaining the skills of the past, and teaching or otherwise preserving them for my children and their children.  As a species we have survived for tens of thousands of years with far, far less than we have now.  We can do the same again, though I do believe that the ones most prepared are the ones most likely to continue the longest.  I also believe that if much of this self reliance is put to use now, then the end of oil can be prolonged, and that our technologies will compensate better for our reliance on it.  Further, I believe that the more in harmony we live with nature, the better balance we achieve with our planet, and the longer our planet will provide for our needs.  We are on a little blue raft in the vast darkness of space.  This is all we have got!  We live too far from any other solar systems to travel to them and set up shop.  So the blog is about achieving that kind of harmony, without attempting any type of spiritual fulfilment or political stage.  In due time, I would like my children to benefit from this little recipe book of life. 

Apart from the new blog, we have been preparing the house for the big move.  There is so much to do!  We have divided tasks up between the family with the right to delegate as required.  Each person has a variety of tasks to manage.  Some are big, some are small.  But everyone has their hands full!

More Recent Stuff & Thoghts

Other things I have been up to lately include getting out and walking around Worcester.  I might be doing it still in October, but if our plans come to fruition, I won’t see this place at all on September 2!  Or 2 September, depending on which side of the “Pond” you are looking at it from!  The kids are getting eager, and ready for it.  I am keeping my fingers crossed!  I only say that because I am the one who has to act as sponsor for the family, but I am also the stay-at-home parent who is earning no income.  That is the only spanner we can see getting into the works.  It is annoying to not know if and when we can go.  I think that if we had an answer on the aforementioned topic, that would alone be enough to remove all of the stress related to the move.  Compared to not knowing, I think that dealing with airfare and shipping and all else would be very easy! 

That paragraph could not be called one, could it? 

As I said, we are trying to get out and get familiar with Worcester.  If we do leave it this summer, I would like to have seen more of it than the living room at our place!  Besides, the desert is in such contrast to England.  Water will be scarce, and the lawn will actually have to be watered in order for it to survive!  Over here, we have never had to put water on anything outside, apart from making sure the vegetable patch remained moist.  But there is obviously so much more to it than precipitation!  The history here is going to be something to miss greatly!  I cannot in all honesty say I will miss many of the people, or the culture.  It is cold and closed here, and that is nothing like the America I left behind almost 8 years ago.  I have been here so long, and feel like I have so few friends.  I know I am not the most outgoing person, and needy in this regard, but to know so few, and from such a distance?  If no man is an Island, then the people on this island need to stop internalising their homeland so much!  It is weird living with my neighbours so close to me, and to yet be so isolated! 

I just don’t think I will miss the quaintness! 

I did say there was a lot to do, and I am not finding the best way to put to words what else is going on here for me.  So I am going to leave it (sort of) unfinished for now.  This post could
be twice as long if I could find the way to put it all. 

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VISA Progress:

We were determined after I moved to the UK that we would move over to America one day, and finish raising our kids there, and get our lives going in earnest.  It resulted in a big mistake on our part as we never really settled into our house properly.  The garden (yard) was never done properly and the grass never cut and cared for as it should be.  We never decorated any of the rooms fully, but rather splashed paint on as absolutely required.  We never really made our house a home at all.  It is a rental that we never intended to stay in, so there was no incentive to do any of this. 

The years ticked by, and all along we intended to move away, and we talked about moving away, and when we would do it.  Finally, we filed the first bit of paperwork to get my wife and two step-sons VISAs to live in the USA back in March, 2009.  That was meant to be the express lane, and we would have moved that summer if we could.  But how naive we were to think we might.  As it turns out, it takes a really long time to work through all of it, and there is the money as well, which sometimes resulted in a bit of sticker shock.  Paying out $355 per person on the VISA filing fee was one thing.  Then finding out the Interviews themselves were going to be another $400 each was a horse of a different colour! 

We need to also have air fares, and money to cover the cost of shipping personal belongings over..!!  And as you may well be aware, the airlines are charging for everything they can now, including the use of a pillow or fee for a carry-on bag.  They are going full hog on fees to recoup the losses over the last year, as if we were to blame for it! 

The whole unsettled feeling of the last several years, plus the added magnitude of it since filing those fist papers in 2009, and the worry over getting it all right, and fulfilling everything we need to, and the fact I cannot buy a single kitchen utensil without thinking of how it will be disposed of in the long run (ever shortening run).  I cannot set up my business in earnest either!  It all amounts to a lot of undue stress that I would rather not have to deal with at any time again in my life.  We do well financially at the moment, but we are not rich people.  The costs surrounding this move are a burden, to be sure, even if only a temporary one. 

Well, as of tonight, we have filled out the papers at last letting the Embassy know we are ready for our interviews.  They should be set for about one month out.  Then, and only after the interviews, will we know if we have dotted the i’s and crossed the t’s adequately to cause them to issues three VISAs so we can all move over to America at last, and settle at last, and buy a butter dish that I think might look nice in my kitchen, at LAST..!! 

I mail in those forms tomorrow, and then I am off to town without a care in my mind, but to wonder how long it will take to hear back from the Embassy on the appointment.  I am sure I will freak out then too, and post a blog about it!  After all, once that date is past, and we hear back, we will know…  KNOW if and about WHEN we are finally able to start our lives together in earnest after only seven and a half years (plus) of marriage!  Finally, we will be able to start making things right so we can buy a Bed and Breakfast and with any luck, retire there in many years to come.

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Thoughts on the Year So Far.

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Importing Old Journals

I just imported some old journals off Blogger and tried to off MSN Live Journal because hey, I like WordPress a lot better than those two.  MSN does its own marketing on the blog, and who wants that?  Blogger keeps having formatting issues with the program I do my composing in, which ironically is Windows Live Writer.  It is great to be able to draft locally on a preformatted page and publish.  This method is much better than having to be online when drafting. 

So, I don’t know for sure what all is in my old journals, but it is nice to at last consolidate them.  I have also put in the entries from my photo blogs since I think the pictures will never import properly into the WordPress blog I am currently trying out for this.  It has been crazy to look back and see some of the things that have gone on over the last couple of years. 

Also, I am not yet publishing publicly, but I thought I would try out a theme on hand crafting life.  It is not about hand crafting everything, but making the things that we use at home rather than buying everything.  Some examples are yeast, compost, and things like that.  Also, did you know you can double your laundry detergent for a very low price with Soda Crystals?  I want to have a place to put everything from the homemade rug from recycled materials, to homemade bread and other recipes.  As we set up house anew in America, we are starting from scratch, and we have a chance to chronicle everything we do from the start.   I might as well accumulate all the knowledge somewhere.

The kids did a kicking job at clearing up a pile today between the shed and the fence.  They are getting it down and ready to move out so that the yard is ready to let go for the move.  We will take down the shed this week and deliver it to the guy down the road, and when the rubbish is cleared, there just won’t be much left to clear out from outside.  The house is all that’s left!  I will miss this house like a guy missed his first car.  It was a beast, but it got me through!  But, it is most definitely time for an upgrade! 

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An Offer You Can’t Refuse…

My wife received a credit card offer in the post today that I had to scan a part of and put online for all of my American family and friends to see first hand.  This is the type of thing that any of you should come to expect if you want to live in the UK, and mind you, I have seen MUCH higher interest rates on offer through otherAPR companies. 

Mind you that my wife works a good job and has great credit!

And they call this an offer?

There are terms for these terms in America, but I would not use those terms among rude company, much less the polite society I am accompanied with. 

There is a company here called Provident, who literally advertises 187% interest rates.  How can terms like this be legal?  By the time you take into account the cost of a product after you have paid taxes on your earnings, sales tax of VAT, and then interest on a credit card purchase, then you understand fully my friends why the rich stay rich and the poor stay poor!  In those terms, NO credit card is worth its “convenience.” 

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What is a nice day?

Today was a nice day.  Contrails crossed the sky as jets finally left the airports they were stuck in while the Icelandic volcano dumped ash all over the dusty continent.  With all the talk of passengers stuck everywhere, I wonder what this has been like for the pilots and air hostesses? 

Home school went well, was relaxing, and the boys were fairly well behaved.  Kiry posed no serious trouble either.  Facebook provided me with a lively debate over gun control because I put a funny Eddie Izzard quote up today.  I also got in touch with three guys I knew from back my school days.  The weather was even very pleasant today!  This has been a *nice* day! 

This evening I pegged laundry on the line out back with my oldest step-son, and we talked about things that mattered to him.  The moon was out, the temperature lovely, and the sky still laced with contrails.  It was also nice.

I just finished a cup of English Tea, and am soon off to bed. 

Tomorrow the boys and Kiry and I are out to let the boys toss around an American Football in the park where there will be plenty of space to run after it.  They will stand out in the park here as I have only once seen it done American style in Worcester before.  I am glad they have not even thought of how they will stand out! 

There are probably better ways to describe the day, and the things in our lives right now. 

Nice seems such a simple description. 

But it is the simplicity that makes it nice.

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By Means of Observation

I have watched wit interest as the unpronounceable volcano has spewed an ash cloud over Europe, and over my home here in England.  It has amazed me the way the air traffic has come to a standstill because of the dangers of volcanic ahs being sucked into the engines of jets, and the silicon in the ash melted and cooled before leaving the engine.  The dangers of four stalled engines over the Atlantic, or even over densely populated Europe are obvious! 

But it is not the first time in my life a volcano has done this where I have lived.  When Mount St. Helens erupted in the 80’s I lived near Denver, Colorado, and I distinctly remember going out to the car and sweeping ash off the windshield with my hand.  That ash, as I remember it, appeared to be mostly composed of burnt wood ash. 

So far, I have not seen the same sort of ash here in the UK.  The ash here appears to be in the form of a dust could hanging in the air like a sometimes thick haze that makes it almost impossible to see the Malvern Hills, 8 miles away. 

The most obvious conclusion is that the Cascades are thickly forested, while Iceland is not. 

Just a minor observation by someone privileged to see tectonic forces at work reshaping our world in two significant events.

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Friday Night Fun

The family stayed up all the night long watching The Nanny, which has lately become a favourite show for us.  At 2 AM we all finally toddled off to bed and now I am sat listening to a sound from outside which sounds sort of like a saw or a sanding block.  Should I be worried about it?  It is about one tenth of a mile away, from the sounds of it.  Maybe I should be expecting company..!! 

Of course, it being Britain, the taxi parade has begun.  I can hear the occasional taxi passing; loaded with drunks from the City Centre, on their way home for almost memorable fun to be had with someone they have not met before recently. 

The most confusing day of the year in my neighbourhood?  Father’s Day!

Now it is time for me to see if this is going to publish on my wonky broadband tonight, or after I fight with it in the morning! 

–G’night all..!!

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